Wednesday, March 26, 2008

sister, sister

So I was the Tyra Banks Show while flipping between Sex and the City reruns and the Rockets/Timberwolves game (Hou 97 Min 86....wooooooooo) & the title of the show caught my eye:

"Sibling Birth Order Controversy"

So the whole premise behind the show was birth order and how it can affect a person's personality and characteristics. So naturally, me being the baby and only girl in my family...this was very interesting to me because i feel like i fall right into the exact "mold" of the baby of a family....so ya girl did a little research into "birth order" n this is what i found. (an article by Dr. Kevin Leman)


Only-borns
Positives: Only-borns are the mega-movers of the world. They are task-orientated; tend to be extremely well organized, highly conscientious and dependable. They are keen on facts, ideas and details and feel extremely comfortable with responsibility.

Negatives: The negative characteristics of only-borns can be tough to handle. They are often unforgiving, very demanding, hate to admit they're wrong and usually don't accept criticism well. To others, they seem very sensitive and indeed, their feelings are easily hurt.

First-borns

Positives: They are natural leaders and often high achievers. The majority of politicians, spokespersons and managing directors are first-borns. They frequently live with a sense of entitlement and even superiority. They often come in two flavours: compliant nurturers/caregivers or aggressive movers and shakers. Both are in control; they just use different methods. As a rule, first-borns are picky, precise people - they pay attention to detail - tend to be punctual, organised, and competent. They want to see things done right the first time. They don't like surprises.

Negatives: They are often moody and occasionally lack sensitivity. They can be intimidating, particularly by pushing people too hard or refusing to take no for an answer. Sometimes they can be a bit 'know-it-all', and often they are poor at delegating - largely because they don't trust other people as much as they trust themselves. They also tend to be bossy, perfectionists and overly-conscientious.

Middle-Borns
Positives: The classic middle-born is very relational, tends to be a people-pleaser and usually hates confrontation. Their basic need is to keep life smooth and their motto might be 'peace at any price'. They are usually very calm, will roll with the punches and are amiable, down-to-earth and great listeners. They are skilled at seeing both sides of a problem and eager to make everybody happy. That makes them good mediators and negotiators.

Negatives: They tend to be less driven than first-borns, but are much more eager to be liked - or at least be happy with them. They have a difficult time setting boundaries. They can drift into becoming 'co-dependent' as they try to please everybody. They are not good at making decisions that will offend others. They also tend to blame themselves when others fail.

Last-Borns
Positives: Last-borns are the world's cheerleaders. You have strong people skills and love to entertain and talk to others. You make friends easily and immediately make others feel at home. You're an extrovert, energised by the presence of other people and you're probably not afraid to take risks.

Negatives: Last-borns tend to get bored quickly. They have a strong fear of rejection and a short attention span. When the fun stops, they've had enough and want to check out. To some extent they're self-centered. They may harbour unrealistic expectations of finding a relationship that is always fun - and of course, such relationships simply do not last.
WOW, all SOOOOOOOOOOOO true in my case....seriously to the T. So which child are you....and do you think birth order is really legit and has a serious impact on who you are.....or just a bunch of croc?

til we blog again,
bo$$lady

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

spring break '08

soooooo i know i've been slackiinnnnn on postin on here [i apologize]. HOWEVER i knew i couldn't leave u gals high and dry for spring break. i can just see ya'll runnin around checkin thekommonthread every 5 minutes to see what u should pack for yer spring break festivities....well be still your heart...cuz here goes...


.1. Lux Twilight Dress (in black/grey) $78
ombre is the new thing for spring [if u don't know...look it up!] n this is the perfect alternative to easter pastel spring dresses.

2.Patent T-strap Sandals (in pink) $12.99

3.Disco Diamonds Necklace $38
Made by up and coming jewelry designer Cajsita, this necklace is the perfect example of springs new playful and crafty accessories....made to bring out the bling in spring :]

4. Bandeau one-piece monokini (in yellow) $52
can u say freakum suit? this suit is SLAP YO MAMA sexyyyyyyyyy. *added plus is that it lifts whatever it is that yer working with...and holds most of it in place.

5. F21 Thrift Sunglasses (in Light Grey) $5.80
Thrift store price, old-school feel, and envy appeal without the search...PLUS u won't faint if u lose them [which u prob will]

6. Women's Convertible Clutch (in white) $12.50
this clutch converts into a small tote..less hassle...more room for numberssss. holla!

'til we blog again,
bo$$lady

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

HOTTIE ALERT

so maybe im like the only woman alive who doesnt find Barack Obama attractive!!! i mean grown ass women is fiending fa him like he the last man alive!! i must admit he was a cute baby!!! but umm all yall scandalous "rhymes with toes" betta watch out fa Michelle cuz i got a feeling Mrs. Obama don't play!!

look @ em all hollywood & shii!!
until we blog again,
kellee kells

Friday, March 7, 2008

american boy


ESTELLE


this chick is refreshing, something new fa u to listen to
the UK has crazy artists that or so on they shii

it makes the states look underdeveloped

i peeped her like a yr ago & was feelin her then

she has come across the pond to make her mark

AMERICAN BOY FT KANYE

haute hookups

ok so why we r all so fascinated with hollywood is still a mystery to me but i must say ive got the hookup bug and im just so darn elated for these next two couples

ROUND 1-rihanna & chris
according to thehollywoodgossip.com,
chris serenanded her @ her surprise 20th bday bash followed with a big KISS afterwards!!!!


ROUND 2- Kanye & Alexis
rumor has it not only are they getting married they are expecting


until we blog again,
kellee kells

SPRING O8 LADIES

LADIES FIRST
now now ladies dont be afraid of color but pick a hue that compliments your skin tonehowever please do be careful when picking prints [they aren't all flattering]
& alway always remember that just b/c they have it in your size[big or small] doesnt mean it works for you!!
lets think masculine edge /feminine feelso here are a few looks to defintely work into your spring attire...

- Urbanoutfitters,Cheap Monday Check Shirt Dress $55.00,this picnic print dress is a ready, set, go look and yes it may be spring but u can still rock a pair of lightweight short boots or booties

- ESSENCE "Call of the Wild"Lanvin dress, $1,908 this safari look is haute as well, earth tones work not to mention paired with a animal print accessory


-Nordstroms BP, Susina® Ruffle Camisole Dress $48.00
spend day in the sun with this ruffle empire waist dress, its fun & flirty


-Urbanoutfitters, Betsey Johnson Denim Short Jumper $295.00
alrite now this denim jumper screams sexy so if you're able, rock it!!!




FELLAS, i got u in PART II!!!
until we blog again,
kellee kells

no grind, no shine

ok so ya guh is recently unemployed[by choice of course]
my philosophy on work is dont do it if you dont love it or at least like it
and well i HATED IT so i quit!
but no excuses if you have bills to pay...get it how you live!!
anywho i said all that to say that now that i've resigned i will have more time to devote to my kommonthreaders b/c i know you guys have felt a lil neglected lately...i apologize from the bottom of my heart!!
ok so even tho its winter wonderland where i am[TEXAS] right now

its still March & that means spring is fast approaching so its time to get spring season sexy!!!
check the next few blogs to see what u should be seen in
until we blog again,
kellee kells